I’m still in a state of deactivation, but thought I’d have a quick lurk to see if the new profiles are still old profiles reincarnated. (My suspicions were correct.)
One profile, though, had me in a bit of a quandary. The description went like this, and I’ve bolded one particular section for emphasis.
“My name is dan. [sic] I’m an easy going genuine bloke. Chivalry is not dead. Just looking for some new friendship at the moment. As I have recently become widowed. I’m a carpenter by trade. Enjoy the great outdoors. Hanging out with my 2 dogs. I am addicted to the Xbox at the moment. If you would like to have a chat just send me a message.”
So I had a closer look, and found that his intention was “Looking for a relationship” (not friendship)…but wait, there’s more…
His main photo was clearly of himself and his late wife. (The thumbnail was cropped to only show his face.)
It makes you think, doesn’t it. What is classed as “recently” widowed? And if your wife has “recently” passed away (say a matter of months ago), surely the last thing you’d want to do would be to trawl dating sites with a picture of the two of you together?
I guess there’s no “right” timeframe for that sort of thing, and all people deal with grief and loss differently. It just surprised me, that’s all, and I hope his head is in the right place.
Somehow, with the choice of main photo, I’m not sure that’s the case.
Soph x